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3. Actions that may indicate disassociation indude the following:
• Making known a firm decision to be
known no longer as one of Jehovah's Wit nesses. If the individual is agreeable, the com mittee should first try to speak with him and provide spiritual assistance. (GaL 6:1) Does he really desire to disassociate himsel , or does he simply no longer want to associate actively with the congregation? Is the desire to disassociate prompted by doubts or discouragement? If he is adamant in his position, he should be encour aged to put his request in writing and sign it. If he does not, then the witnesses to his request should prepare a statement for the confidential files and sign i t.
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If members of the congregation are known to have undue association with disfellowshipped or disassociated relatives who are not in the household elders should counsel and reason with those members of the congregation from the Scriptures. R eview with them information from the "God/s LoveN book, pages 207-208; The Watchtower of April 15 1 988, pages 26-30; or the article "Display Christian Loyalty When a Relative Is Disfellowshipped" in the August 2002 Our Kingdom Ministry. If it is clear that a Christian is violating the spirit of the disfellowshipping decree in this regard and does not respond to counsel, it may be that he would not qualify for congregation privileges, which require one to be exemplary. He would not be dealt with judically unless there is persistent spiritual association or he openly criticizes the disfellowshipping decision.